I think these earrings are a perfect gift for anyone that is a DMB fan! The backs stay on nice and tight and they are made well so I don’t think they will bend or break. The bottom of the fire dancer hangs slightly under my earlobe - so you can get an idea of size. I usually wear very small studs and these are slightly bigger than I prefer, which is the only reason I have given them 4 stars instead of 5 - but my personal preference is very small studs. I normally wear one fire dancer on one side and one small silver moon or star in the other ear. Most people don’t know exactly what the fire dancer is, but I have had a few people tell me it looks “cute” or “cool”. I’m very happy with my purchase, and often wear them while I am wearing my satellite bracelet.